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Mindfulness Resources
Recess Cards - Micro-Breaks for a Better Work Day: Give yourself permission to play.
5-minute mindfulness practice with Monica Phillips on YouTube
1-minute Brain Break with Monica Phillips on YouTube
Miracle of Mind, Sadhguru app (free)
Calm - The #1 App for sleep, meditation, and relaxation
Coaching Resources
Saboteur Assessment - Recognize the saboteurs that could interrupt your day.
Positive Intelligence Quotient - Are you thriving above the line?
Suggested Reading
The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership: A New Paradigm for Sustainable Success, by Kaley Klemp, Diana Chapman, Jim Dethmer
The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself, by Michael A. Singer
The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict, by The Arbinger Institute
EPIC! The Women’s Power Playbook, by Carolyn Buck Luce
Energy Self-Audit Activity
Rate your current energy levels in four dimensions (scale of 1–5):
Physical: How rested and energized does your body feel?
Emotional: How positively and calmly are you engaging with others?
Mental: How focused and clear is your thinking?
Purpose/Spiritual: How connected do you feel to your values and purpose?
Reflection:
What energizes me at work?
What depletes me?
When do I feel most grounded and purposeful?
What’s one small shift you can make this week to elevate your energy in one of these areas?
Think about a moment when you showed up as a strong leader—even in a non-leadership role. How did your energy affect the room or the people around you? What’s the connection between your internal state and your leadership presence?
Leading at all levels begins with energy awareness. The more intentional we are about how we manage our energy, the more capacity we have to inspire, support, and influence others—wherever we are in the org chart.
Designing an Alliance
Agree on an amount of time for this conversation. Consider going for a walk together if that is an accessible option.
Choose 2–3 questions to explore with a coworker. Be curious. Listen to understand, not to respond.
Berkeley NOW Breakout Session Questions
What conditions help you do your best work? What makes it harder?
What is one thing about how you work that you wish colleagues understood better?
How can we support each other when things get stressful or unclear?
Optional: What is one way you'd like our working relationship to be different?
Additional Questions to Consider
What do each of us expect and want from this relationship?
What are the conditions that need to be in place for us to work together effectively?
What are a couple of things that really matter to each of us? (Ex: I want to get credit for my contribution to this project. Or it’s important to me to talk about any issues that come up between us right away)
What are each of your deal-breakers? (Eg: I won’t work on weekends.)
Who will be responsible for what?
What are the potential obstacles to success?
What do we need to get the most out of our work together?
How will we create accountability?
What will we do when things get hard or when one of us fails or makes a mistake?
How will we handle feedback – both positive and constructive?
How will we celebrate successes?
Leaders At All Levels
Think of a way you have modeled leadership in these different ways:
Within – Self-awareness and growth, be the change you wish to see
In front - Connection and direction, vision and clarity
Behind - Coaching and serving, values, let go of ego to serve at the highest levels
Beside - Partnership and synergy, passion and purpose of working together and the why, shared vision and intention
Field - Intuition and innovation, purpose and integrity, PQ, insight, courage and commitment to act in a way that is innovative and new
What is one way you would like to practice your leadership skills? __________________________________
Integration & Action
Today I was inspired by: _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
My Commitments
One boundary I will get clear on to create space for my wellbeing: _____________________________________________________________________________________
One practice I will try this week: _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
One practice I’ll explore with someone on my team: ____________________________________________________________________________________________________
One way I’ll integrate mindfulness into my workday: ____________________________________________________________________________________________________
Examples:
Start meetings with 1-min pause
Encourage walking 1:1s
Create a team ‘energy check’ ritual
UC Berkeley Mental Health and Wellbeing Resources
Faculty & Staff Assistance Programs: https://ucnet.universityofcalifornia.edu/work-life-support/support-for-you-and-your-family/faculty-and-staff-assistance-programs/
Healthy UC Davis: https://healthy.ucdavis.edu/mental-emotional/services/academics-staff
Berkeley Employee Assistance Program (EAP): https://uhs.berkeley.edu/bewellatwork/employee-assistance | Free, confidential counseling
Ombuds Office: https://staffombuds.berkeley.edu/ | Confidential, informal support
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call, chat, or text 988